Joshua Coleman, PhD
Dr. Coleman is a psychologist in private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area and a Senior Fellow with the Council on Contemporary Families, a non-partisan organization of leading sociologists, historians, psychologists and demographers dedicated to providing the press and public with the latest research and best practice findings about American families.
He has written for The New York Times, The Atlantic, NBC THINK, The Behavioral Scientist, CNN, MarketWatch, the San Francisco Chronicle, Greater Good Magazine, AEON, Huffington Post, Psychology Today and more. He has given talks to the faculties at Harvard, the Weill Cornell Department of Psychiatry and other academic institutions. A frequent guest on the Today Show and NPR he has also been featured on Sesame Street, 20/20, Good Morning America, PBS, America Online Coaches, and numerous news programs for FOX, ABC, CNN, and NBC television.
He is the author of numerous articles and chapters and has written four books: The Rules of Estrangement (Random House); The Marriage Makeover: Finding Happiness in Imperfect Harmony (St. Martin's Press); The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework (St. Martin's Press); When Parents Hurt: Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Don't Get Along (HarperCollins)
He is the co-editor, along with historian Stephanie Coontz of seven online volumes of Unconventional Wisdom: News You Can Use, a compendium of noteworthy research on the contemporary family, gender, sexuality, poverty, and work-family issues.
His books have been translated into Chinese, Korean, Russian, Polish, and Crotian.
He is the co-editor, along with historian Stephanie Coontz of seven online volumes of Unconventional Wisdom: News You Can Use, a compendium of noteworthy research on the contemporary family, gender, sexuality, poverty, and work-family issues.
Dr Coleman also writes music for film and television. His music has been featured on Lethal Weapon, Chicago Fire, Chicago PD, Longmire, Shameless, Keeping Up With the Kardashians, Fresh Off the Boat, Supergirl, Mistresses, Hustlers, RuPaul's Drag Race and many more.
Q&A
Depressed When My Kids were Young, Now they Blame Me for Everything
Is Your Son-in-Law or Daughter-in-Law the Cause of Your Estrangement?
Why the Family History of the Daughter or Son-in-Law Matters
How Do We Move on with our Life when our Whole Life has been Wrapped Around our Child?
What Could a Caring Friend of Family Member Tell my Estranged Child?
Mistake #1 = Focusing on What’s Fair and not What’s Practical
How to Respond to my Troubled Child’s Demands and Mistreatment
Your SIL or DIL is the Gatekeeper to your Child and Grandchild
My Kids Don’t Want Me to Remarry Now that their Father is Dead
Why Stopping is Sometimes Better for Reconciliation than Trying
Why You Should Often Ignore Your Child's Opinion of You As A Parent
What if I think I did something that's bothering them but they never admit it?
Why Won't They Talk About the Estrangement After Reconciliation?
Your Son-in-Law or Daughter-in-Law is the Gatekeeper to Your Child
Should I Handle An Estranged Older Child's Abuse Differently?
Why Is Estrangement So Hard on Marriage and Romantic Relationships?
What if the child wants contact with one parent and not the other?
Since I’ve Been Estranged I Feel Like I’m on an Emotional Roller Coaster. Is that Normal?
The Connection Between Mental Illness, Abusive Behavior and Estrangement
Does my Estranged Child Have any Guilt? Recommendations for Early Reconciliation
How Does Estrangement Affect Non-Estranged Siblings and other Family Members?
I Don't Want My Future Daughter-in-law to Get Any of Our Money!
Facebook - Should I Tell others to De-Friend my Child or not Post on their Site?
My Child’s Memory of her Childhood is All Wrong. Very Upsetting!